"Dependence-Unhealthy or Healthy? Nothing can be more demoralizing than a clinging and abject dependence upon another human being.this often amounts to the demand for a degree of protection and love that no one could possibly satisfy. So our hoped-for protectors finally flee,and once more we are left alone - either to GROW UP or disintegrate."---This that I read, coupled with the pain I cause others and myself, has spurred me on to begin a journey I have long been avoiding..Finding me with out you.  Let's see what happens!!!